From Calm to Chaos "Assumptions are the termites of relationships' ~ Henry Winkler I warmly recall my long-ago best friend Darren. In the late 90’s, he and I were an unstoppable riot act, laughing our way through hours upon hours of conversation, hanging out, dining out, biking through Central Park on weekends, and being all around adventure buddies. Then, around 2009, I met Casey, an amazing woman who I ended up marrying in 2010. I was head over heels for her from the very beginning, and didn’t want to do anything but see her, talk to her, and just all around be with her, as if her gravitational field had my name on it. But I couldn’t just write off my best buddy Darren.
So, for awhile, I